There are times in our lives when we are swept over by raging emotions. Times when we are overwhelmed by sadness and overcome by misery. Times when we feel that we are loved only for the worth others could get from us and not who we really are. It is natural to feel this way. Sometimes we all need to be alone, to feel blue, to listen to a song and cry… Then we asked ourselves.. ” Why does this song have to end?” “Why do we have to cry when love is taken away from us?” “Why does it have to hurt when we let go og someone we truly love?” In a relationship we treasure, the hardest thing to do is saying goodbye and setting someone free. In every last embrace a part of us dies. Every teardrop that falls washes away our hopes. Then, we are left with nothing but pain and bitter memories because we have lost love but never knew how and will probably never know why. We try 2 get away but every move we make has its way of reminding us of the past all over again. Every turn of our head and every blink of an eye reminds us of love lost in eternity. It makes us wonder how one person can make us feel so empty, so alone and desolace. Every song, no matter how beautiful it is has to end.. For every beginning there is always and end and for every end there is always a new beginning, new life, new hopes new dreams.. We should not fear in falling in love, it may hurt us but how could we measure our love for that person if we cant feel the pain, the pain caused by the person we want to share forever with. Love is taking risk, If your not willing to take the risk the you are not ready to fall in love again..
“ECHOES OF OUR HEARTS”
Sometimes we close our eyes and just listen to the echoes of our hearts. We all fall inlove and there are times when we love so much that we lose ourselves in our own emotions. More often than not, We wonder why there are love that grows and love that grows cold. We would start to search for answers and try to find where love has gone wrong. But in the end, we find oursleves where we started for we cannot question love when it has its own reasons. Love will be as it always has been.. Silent, mysterious, and deeply profound. Many of us believe that love is forever, that love never dies.. only to be disillusioned in the end when we find our hands empty and our hearts longing. We mistakenly have look at love as a need to be fullfilled. But love is only a gift given to us, We should not hold it in our hands for we may never find the strength to let it go when it decides to leave. We should only embrace its warmth and glow while it lasts and then truly open our arms when its time to say goodbye. When we fall inlove with sum1, we dont want that feeling to end for it is everything we are and everything that we wanted to be. We pray that love will stay and grow in our hearts but if it doesnt, then we should never let our lives be taken by it.. For life should not end where heartaches begin. There is always a reason why we have to move on. When we have to say goodbye to the feelings we wanted to stay forever. Let us not wave our hands with a heavy heart. For love will have to set its wings free and find the place where it belongs. We may have lost it but then again, when we close our eyes and listen to the echoes of our hearts, we will hear that feeling resounding silently forever. Then we’l know that that it has never left us for the good that we have become because of love will always stay. It will always be there reminding us that we should be thankful and happy, not because we have lost love, but because for once in our lives that feeling lived in our hearts and made us happy.
There were 2 hearts who met in a dance. That moment was magical. There was a sweet song playing, there was harmony and soon love in the air. They fell inlove and started building castles in their dreams and promise forever with all certainty, But, somewhere in the midst of fun they got lost in the dance.. Something went wrong but they can never do anything.. They were just drifting away, their fortress falling apart. There were so many questions but no one had an answer. The music stopped and then there was silence.. When we truly love someone, we give our best to let that person see the pureness of our intentions. But sometimes that person makes us cry and hurts us for the wrong reason, that someone must have loved us but she has not loved us enough to make her stand for what she truly felt. Now we are faced with the seemingly impossible task of forgetting. We have burdened ourselves long enough but we still cant get out of this emotional trap. Let us remember that the more we try 2 4get sum1 we love, the more painful letting go will become. Sometimes we never had to take that person out of our hearts at all, for she will always be there no matter how hard we try 2 drive her away. It isnt this presence that makes this difficult. It is our stubborness to accept our destiny that aligns forgetting next to imposibble. We keep a cold face but deep in our hearts, there is still that lingering hope for reconciliation. Somehow we still believe that we can rekindle small embers and relight the fire that once burned in our hearts. These thoughts give us hope but it also breeds the seeds of loneliness and despair. The only way to forget is to accept and the only way to move on is look ahead and let the footprints of the past be blown by the wind of time. Only then can our hearts find a partner in the dance of life nad hopefully never get lost agen……
One day a young man was standing in the middle of the town proclaiming that he had the most beautiful heart in the whole valley. A large crowd gathered and they all admired his heart for it was perfect. There was not a mark or a flaw in it. Yes, they all agreed it truly was the most beautiful heart they had ever seen. The young man was very proud and boasted more loudly about his beautiful heart.
Suddenly, an old man appeared at the front of the crowd and said, “Why your heart is not nearly as beautiful as mine.” The crowd and the young man looked at the old man’s heart. It was beating strongly, but full of scars, it had places where pieces had been removed and other pieces put in, but they didn’t fit quite right and there were several jagged edges. In fact, in some places there were deep gouges where whole pieces were missing. The people stared — how can he say his heart is more beautiful, they thought?
The young man looked at the old man’s heart and saw its state and laughed. “You must be joking,” he said. “Compare your heart with mine, mine is perfect and yours is a mess of scars and tears.” “Yes,” said the old man, “yours is perfect looking but I would never trade with you. You see, every scar represents a person to whom I have given my love - I tear out a piece of my heart and give it to them, and often they give me a piece of their heart which fits into the empty place in my heart, but because the pieces aren’t exact, I have some rough edges, which I cherish, because they remind me of the love we shared.
Sometimes I have given pieces of my heart away, and the other person hasn’t returned a piece of his heart to me. These are the empty gouges — giving love is taking a chance. Although these gouges are painful, they stay open, reminding me of the love I have for these people too, and I hope someday they may return and fill the space I have waiting. So now do you see what true beauty is?”
The young man stood silently with tears running down his cheeks. He walked up to the old man, reached into his perfect young and beautiful heart, and ripped a piece out. He offered it to the old man with trembling hands. The old man took his offering, placed it in his heart and then took a piece from his old scarred heart and placed it in the wound in the young man’s heart. It fit, but not perfectly, as there were some jagged edges. The young man looked at his heart, not perfect anymore but more beautiful than ever, since love from the old man’s heart flowed into his. They embraced and walked away side by side.
The wind changes every direction
a hundred times or more a day..
It has no goal or focus to be
anything more than itself.
The wind is free to come and go as it pleases
But people, on the other hand,
have an inner desire to accomplish,
to achieve, to be productive.
It is a human quality that enables people
to select which way they want to go
and to determine how fast or how slow
their journey will be.
People have the power to choose
the roads they will travel.
They must never forget that
they are in control of their lives.
So let the wind blow in your face
and circle around you
as you live day-to-day
but know in your heart
that you are the one
who really knows which way
the wind blows
for you.
There may be days when you get up in the morning and things aren’t the way you had hoped they would be.
That’s when you have to tell yourself that things will get better. There are times when people disappoint you and let you down, but those are the times when you must remind yourself to trust your own judgements and opinions, to keep your life focused on believing in yourself and all that you are capable of.
There will be challenges to face and changes to make in your life, and it is up to you to accept them. Constantly keep yourself headed in the right direction for you.
It may not be easy at times, but in those times of struggle you will find a stronger sense of who you are, and you will also see yourself developing into the person you have always wanted to be.
Life is a journey through time, filled with many choices; Each of us will experience life in our own special way. So when the days come that are filled with frustration and unexpected responsibilities, remember to believe in yourself and all you want your life to be, because the challenges and changes will only help you to find the dreams that you know are meant to come true for you.
1. When a girl says she’s sad, but she isn’t
crying, it means she’s crying in her heart.
2. When she ignores you
after you’ve done something wrong, it’s best to
give her some time to cool down before giving
her a hearlfelt apology.
3. A girl can’t find anything to hate
about the guy she loves (which is why it is so
hard for her to ‘get over him’ after the
relationship is over.)
4. If a girl loves a guy, he will always be on
her mind every minute of the day, even though
she flirts with other guys.
5.When the guy she likes smiles and stares
deep into her eyes, she melts.
6. A girl likes to hear compliments, but usually
is not sure how to react to them.
7. When a particular guy flirts with a girl
a lot, a girl would start thinking the guy
likes her. So if you treat a girl just as a
friend, go easy on the smiles and stares ‘okie?
8. If you don’t like a
girl who likes you, break it to her gently.
9. If a girl starts avoiding you after you
reject her, leave her alone for a while. If you
still want to be friends, talk to her.
10. Girls enjoy talking about
what they feel. Music, poetry, drawings and
writing are ways of expressing themselves (which
explains why mostgirls like writing journals).
11. Never tell a girl that she is useless in any
way.
12. Being too serious can turn a girl off.
13. When the guy she likes calls her for the
first time, the girl may act uninterested during
the call. But as soon as the phone is back on
the hook, she will whoop with joy and
immediately start calling her friends to
spread the news.
14. A smile means a lot to a girl.
15. If you like a girl, try making friends
with her first. Let her get to know you.
16. If a girl says she can’t go out with you
because she has to study, leave her alone.
17. But if she still calls you or expect
a call from you, stay.
18. Don’t try to guess a girl’s
feelings. Ask her.
19. Hearing the words “I love
you” is a great reassurance to a girl that,
she
is beautiful.
20. After a girl falls in love
with a guy, she’ll wonder why she never noticed
him before.
21. If you need tips on how to flirt with a
girl, read romance stories.
22. When class pictures come out, a girl would
first look at the girl next to her
crush before actually looking at herself.
23. A girl’s ex-crush will always be in her
memory, but the
guy she loves will always stay in her heart.
24. Girls love to have fun!
25. A simple ‘Hi’ can brighten a girl’s day.
26. A girl’s best friend usually knows best what
she is feeling and going through.
27. Girls hate it when a guy pays attention to
them just to get close to their ‘prettier’
friend.
28. Love means devotion, caring and
happiness to a girl, in that order.
29. Some girls care about looks, some care about
brains, but ALL girls
want a guy who will love and care for them….
a playboy meets a playgirl, they started a relationship even if it’s just a game. 1 day the guy realizes that he’s falling in love with her. thinking that the girl is still in his image, he left the gitl without saying anything. the guy heard that the girl was in the hospital and attempted suicide. he visited her and cried after seeing the girl. he asked why she did that, the girl said; “i played with you because I was in love with you since then.” the guy answered, “i left you because I was hurt thiking this game would end without you.”
You know when I said I knew little about love? That wasn’t true. I know a lot about love. I’ve seen it. I’ve seen centuries and centuries of it, and it was the only thing that made watching your world bearable. All those wars. Pain and lies. Hate… It made me want to turn away and never look down again. But to see the way that mankind loves… You could search to the furthest reaches of the universe and never find anything more beautiful. So yes, I know that love is unconditional. But I also know it can be unpredictable, unexpected, uncontrollable, unbearable and strangely easy to mistake for loathing, and… What I’m trying to say, Tristan, is… I think I love you. My heart… It feels like my chest can barely contain it. Like it doesn’t belong to me any more. It belongs to you. And if you wanted it, I’d wish for nothing in exchange. No gifts. No goods. No demonstrations of devotion. Nothing but knowing you loved me too. Just your heart, in exchange for mine. yvainne
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