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March 9, 2009

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my very own,,,pRince YroNne!

           the is the kind of man each women  dreams of in d deepest and most secret reaches of her heart. He had given me always given me the best, d greatest luv i never tot dat i can find.. & felt, a dream come true, dat i tot it can only happen in fairyland. He opened my heart and set it free using his wonderful love as the key…he’s the reason why i see my life sumthing true & special.  

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2geder- neyo

Since the day that we met girl
I aint never had anyone make me feel this way
And my heart is sure it wants to be with you
Wanna to give you the whole world
oh
If you make the promise to me, I’m gonna stay
Without you guiding me, I’m lost and so confused

What will it take to show you I’ll be by your side
Girl I got you and I want to give you what you never had
Girl everyday I hope to make you part of my life
Cause you know me and I know you
girl your love is where it’s at
ohhh…

I’m gonna be the love that’s gonna last
And be the one that got your back
Ain’t nothing never that bad that we would be together
And though we both made our mistakes
And some we never wish we made
But we’ll be okay if we just stay together

Oooh..

I know he left you stranded
And you paid the price when you messed up your life oh
girl I know you’re so afraid
But I can’t write the wrongs she did
I know you saw the lipstick on my window
And wonder’n how many girl’s been to my home
I’ve done my share of playing games
But for you I given up that life

What will it take to show you I’ll be by your side
Girl I got you and I want to give you what you never had
Girl everyday I hope to make you a part of my life
Cause you know me and I know you
Girl your love is where it’s at

ohhh…

I’m gonna be the love that’s gonna last
And be the one that got your back
Ain’t nothing never that bad that we would be together
And though we both made our mistakes
And some we never wish we made
But we’ll be okay if we just stay together

Baby you’re the one I’ve waited for
Because you gave me what I need and more
Girl its clear that we are meant to be
Together,
We should be together
Eternally
Ohhh…

girl I’m gonna be

I’m gonna be the love that’s gonna last
And be the one that got your back
Ain’t nothing never that bad that we would be together
And though we both made our mistakes
And some we never wish we made
But we’ll be okay if we just stay together

I’m gonna be the love that’s gonna last
And be the one that got your back
Ain’t nothing never that bad that we would be together
And though we both made our mistakes
And some we never wish we made
But we’ll be okay if we just stay together

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A rEaL man

a real man 

     doesnt necessarily know how to play basketball

a real man

  does cry even when in front of a girl

a real man 

   does wear pink w/o hesitation 

a real man 

  never fyts  

 

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addicted- stevie hoang

Since u went away it’s been one year two months
But it just dun seem like yesterday we were still together
Time has passed and things have changed so
Why do I feel this way
Cos you’re with somebody else
And I’m with somebody else but

 

Whenever I think about the the love we had
It hurts so bad
Whenever I think about the love we made
I said that I’d be strong
Girl I really thought that I’d move on
But still I find myself asking

Do u still think of me like I think about u
Do u still dream of me cos I can’t sleep without u
Tell me if time should make a change
Then why do I feel the same
Your love has got me addicted
Said I don’t know
When I’m with a chick and hittin it girl I call your name
Said I don’t know
When I be with somebody else I push them away
Tell me if time should make a change
Then why do I feel the same
I know I gotta move on but I’m so addicted to u

It’s been long enough don’t know why I’m still holding on
If I had a wish babe I would turn back the hands of time
Cos u don’t know what u got untill it’s gone
It’s the reason why I’m writing u this song
Girl I’m slippin and I don’t know what to do
Girl I admit it, I’m sick over u
Damn I realised my mistake, my pride got in the way
I should have begged u to stay

Do u still think of me like I think about u
Do u still dream of me cos I can’t sleep without u
Tell me if time should make a change
Then why do I feel the same
Your love has got me addicted
Said I don’t know
When I’m with a chick and hittin it girl I call your name
Said I don’t know
When I be with somebody else I push them away
Tell me if time should make a change
Then why do I feel the same
I know I gotta move on but I’m so addicted to u

If u ever lost someone u truely love
Let me hear u say yeah
And if u lost someone u truely need
Let me hear u say yeah

Do u still think of me like I think about u
Do u still dream of me cos I can’t sleep without u
Tell me if time should make a change
Then why do I feel the same
Your love has got me addicted
Said I don’t know
When I’m with a chick and hittin it girl I call your name
Said I don’t know
When I be with somebody else I push them away
Tell me if time should make a change
Then why do I feel the same
I know I gotta move on but I’m so addicted to u

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4get about me lyrics

Hmm
Whoaaa
Oohhh
Yeahh

You said it wasn’t
Gonna be like
It was before
Then it happened again
Pushing me back
Out the door
Thought it would be
For real this time
Love me forget
About the signs
So now what do I do
Now, that I know
That we’re through

Wish that I
Could move on
Can’t let go
It’s too strong
Just like that
And then you’re gone
Is this how
You wanted it to be
Everything you had to say
Sent the tears
Right down my face
Now I’m trying to escape
The misery

[Chorus:]
Why don’t you love me
The way I loved you
It feels so crazy
Cause I dunno
What I did to you
If you’re gonna hurt me
Then do it quickly
Cause I’m tired of cryin’
If you don’t wanna
Stick around
Then, baby
Forget about me

Too late, sorry
I didn’t even
Have the chance
You said you were happy
Baby
I don’t understand
Gave you everything
You asked for
And was ready
To give you a lot more
I would’ve given you
The world
Right in the palm
Of your hand

Wish that I
Could move on
Can’t let go
It’s too strong
Just like that
And then you’re gone
Was this how
You wanted it to be
Everything you had to say
Sent the tears
Right down my face
Now I’m trying to escape
The misery

[Chorus]

Boy
My heart was true
And that you can’t deny
Don’t be a fool
And walk away
From all the lies
It’s up to you
Cause heaven knows
I’ve tried
Tell me
You’re still in love
Yeahhhh
Ohh

[Chorus]

Forget about me
I really loved you…

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101

101 Ways to say I LOVE U

1. Watch the sunset together.
2. Take showers together.
3. Back rubs/massages.
4. Listen to classical music and cuddle in the dark or w/ blacklight.
5. French Kiss.
6. Hold her w/ hands inside the back of her shirt.
7. Whisper to each other.
8. Cook for each other.
9. Skinny dip.
10. Make out in the rain.
11. Dress each other.
12. Undress each other.
13. Kiss every part of their body.
14. Hold hands.
15. Sleep together. (Actually sleep with each other, not sex)
16. One word: Foreplay
17. Sit and talk in just underwear.
18. Buy gifts for each other.
19. Roses.
20. Find out their favorite cologne/perfume and wear it every time you’re together.
21. Wear his clothes.
22. Find a nice secluded place to lie and watch the stars.
23. Incense/candles/oils/blacklights and music make for great cuddling/sex.
24. Kiss at ever! y chance yo u get.
25. Don’t wear underwear and let them find out.
26. Kinky is bad; Blindfolds are good.
27. Lightly kiss their collarbone and their jawbone just below the ear, then whisper I love you.
28. Bubble baths.
29. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight.
30. Make love.
31. Write poetry for each other.
32. Kiss/smell her hair.
33. Hugs are the universal medicine.
34. Say I love you, only when you mean it and make sure they know you mean it.
35. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry etc.
36. Tell her that she’s the only girl you ever want. Don’t lie.
37. Spend every second possible together.
38. Tell her that she doesn’t have to do anything she doesn’t want to. And mean it.
39. Look into each other’s eyes.
40. Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly.
41. Talk to each other using only body lan! guage and your eyes.
42. When in public, only flirt w/ each other.
43. Walk behind her and put your hands in her front pockets.
44. Put love notes in their pockets when they aren’t looking.
45. Clothes are no fun.
46. Buy her a ring.
47. Keep one of her bras somewhere where you see it everyday.
48. Sing to each other.
49. Read to each other.
50. PDA = Public Display of Affection.
51. Take advantage of any time alone together.
52. Tell her about how you answered every question in math with her name
53. Draw. (If you can)
54. Let her sit on your lap.
55. Go hiking and camp out together in the woods or on a mountain.
56. Lips were made for kissing. So were eyes, and fingers, and cheeks, and collarbones, and hands, and ears.
57. Kiss her stomach.
58. Always hold her around her hips/sides.
59. Guys like half-shirts.
60. Take her to dinner and do the dinner for two deal.
61. Spagh etti (Ever see Lady and the Tramp?)
62. Hold her hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your heart.
63. Unless you can feel their hear beating, you aren’t close enough.
64. Dance together.
65. Sit in front of a roaring fire and make out/make love.
66. I love the way a girl looks right after she’s fallen asleep with her head in my lap.
67. Carry her to bed.
68. Waterbeds are fun.
69. You figure it out.
70. Do cute things like write I love you in a note so that they have to look in a mirror to read it.
71. Break every one of your parent’s relationship rules for them.
72. Make excuses to call them every 5 minutes
73. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say I love you.
74. Call from your vacation spot to tell them you were thinking about them.
75. Remember your dreams and t! ell her about them.&nb sp;
76. Ride your bike 8 miles just to see them for a few hours.
77. Ride home and call them.
78. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears.
79. Somehow incorporate them into any kind of religion or worship you have.
80. Be Prince Charming to her parents. (Brownie Points)
81. Act out mutual fantasies together. (Not necessarily sexual)
82. Brush her hair out of her face for her.
83. Stay up all night to think of 101 ways to be sweet to them.
84. Hang out with his/her friends. (more brownie points)
85. Go to church/pray/worship together.
86. Take her to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked.
87. Cuddle together under a full moon on a clear night.
88. Learn from each other and don’t make the same mistake twice.
89. Everyone deserves a second chance.
90. Describe the joy you feel just to be with him/her.
91. Make sacrifi! ces for each other.
92. Really lo ve each ot her, or don’t stay together.
93. Write a fictional story about how you met/fell in love, etc. and give
it to them.
94. Let there never be a second during any given day that you aren’t thinking about them, and make sure they know it.
95. Love yourself before you love anyone else.
96. Buy her a charm bracelet/necklace w/her name on it.
97. Dedicate songs to them on the radio.
98. Fall asleep on the phone with each other.
99. Sleep naked together.
100. Stand up for them when someone talks trash.
101. Never forget the kiss goodnight. And always remember to say, “Sweet dreams.”

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kowts4

Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never met.

True love never dies as we see in our eyes, only when we let go that we can truly say goodbye.

Real loss only occurs when you lose something that you love more than yourself.

I thought I loved him, but he had to break my heart for me to know what true love really is.

The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren’t paying attention to before.

Time goes by, life goes on, and all I can think of is why you’re gone.

A break up is like a broken mirror. It is better to leave it broken than hurt yourself trying to fix it.

Memories are the best souvenirs.

I should have been more careful. I was blinded by your halo, so I never noticed the horns.

If I could have one lifetime wish, one wish that would come true, I’d pray to God with all my heart, for yesterday…and you!

It’s a horrible thing to see your lost love walk past you with another guy, and it’s the worst thing to know that you made a mistake in letting her go.

I can’t escape the thought of you. Even in my dreams you are there. It’s not fair how you’re gone, and how you’re moving on so fast, while I am still living in the past.

I was finally getting over you and actually believing I didn’t need you. I was finally accepting you had another girl. Then you smiled at me and ruined it all.

Don’t ever give up if you still want to try, don’t ever wipe your tears if you still want to cry. Don’t ever settle for an answer if you still want to know. Don’t ever say you don’t love her if you can’t let her go.

How can I forget you when you’re always on my mind? How can I not want you when your all I want inside? How can I let you go when I can’t see us apart? How can I not love you when you control my heart?

Learn to love someone who would never make you cry. If she hurts you real bad, then why don’t you just say goodbye. You see, women are not worthy of precious tears, they just make us look terrible so please remember that my dear.

I thought that by telling myself and everyone else that I hated you. That sooner or later I would come to believe it.

But I now realize that by lying, it makes me want you even more.

Parting of loving someone is learning to let go.

A failing love is like desperately hanging on to something precious; not wanting to give up, but your hands feel the pain. And, when you finally let go, you’re free from any pain, but your hands are empty.

When speaking of lost love, time may heal all wounds, but there will always be scars.

Breaking up is not a stupid thing; instead it makes you a better person and realize your mistakes.

No matter how much it’ll hurt me to see you, my most loved lost one, all that I wish is look into your eyes once again.

I’m not saying there wasn’t anything wrong, I just didn’t think you’d ever get tired of me. I’m not saying we ever had the right to hold on, I just didn’t wanna let it get away from me.

Letting go of someone dear to you is hard, but holding on to someone who doesn’t even feel the same is much harder. Giving up doesn’t mean you are weak! It only means that you are strong enough to let go!

What do you live for when all you were living for is gone?

A distant cry is love lost, but the sound of laughter is one that’ll last forever, whatever that may be.

Losing you is like losing my heart.

Take a look at what you have. Think of all you did to get it. Remember it only takes one second to lose.

Fate brought you back to me, this time I won’t let you leave. I’m gonna love you until the end.


A lost love is never lost unless what’s lost is the love for your lover.

If you could choose between life and death you would almost rather die, love is fun but hurts so much the price you pay is high. And so I say don’t fall in love, you will get hurt before your through. You see my friend, I ought to know, I fell in love with you.

You said you didn’t want to see me get hurt, so does that mean you closed your eyes when I cried?

I thought I’d forget you, but I guess I forgot to.

Don’t say we’re not right for each other, the way I see it, we’re not meant for anyone else.

Loving you was easy, losing you was hard. Loving you is still easy, but knowing you are no longer mine, is the hardest of it all.

They say no matter how dark the night is, the sun always rises again … I say lost love makes one realize that no matter how bright the day is, the sun will always set again.

Once you find someone you really love try your hardest not to lose them, because you will never get over the feeling of loneliness.

A lost love is never lost unless what’s lost is the love for your lover.

If you could choose between life and death you would almost rather die, love is fun but hurts so much the price you pay is high. And so I say don’t fall in love, you will get hurt before your through. You see my friend, I ought to know, I fell in love with you.

One day you’ll love me, the way I loved you. One day you’ll think of me the way I thought of you. One day you’ll cry for me, the way I cried for you. One day you’ll want me, but I won’t want you.

Even if she doesn’t like me tomorrow, I knew she loved me yesterday.

You said you didn’t want to see me get hurt, so does that mean you closed your eyes when I cried?

I thought I’d forget you, but I guess I forgot to.

Don’t say we’re not right for each other, the way I see it, we’re not meant for anyone else.

You left me suddenly, but I know some day you and I will once again be together.

I cry because I know he doesn’t feel the way I do. I cry because I think of how pathetic I am, and I cry because I think I’ll be crying forever.

Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it’s not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who wouldn’t give up on them.

The biggest mistake in my life that I have ever done was to let you go. And, now I realize that you will never come back to me.

Some people say the worst way to miss someone is when they are right next to you and you know you can’t have them, but it’s worse when you thought you didn’t want them anymore and then all of a sudden you realize you can’t live without them.

There are reasons we met, reasons for the good and the bad times, and more importantly, a reason to an end. We have more to learn, more to experience, and more loving left in this lifetime.

The worst thing is holding on to someone who doesn’t want to be held on to.

I can’t believe she’s gone, I thought love would last but I was wrong.

Days continue to pass, stars continue to shine. Why do I have tears in my eyes today when he was NEVER mine?

A million words wouldn’t bring you back. I know because I’ve tried. Neither would a million tears. I know because I’ve cried!

There’s only one thing I regret doing, loving the girl who didn’t love me, and forgetting the one who did.

It’s hard to tell your mind to stop loving someone, when you’re heart still does.

Love is letting go of the one you love, hoping that they will come back to you when they realize what they have lost.

The time runs slowly…just like my tears.

Should I hate you because you hurt me? Or should I love you because you made me feel special?

It is now one of my biggest regrets in this life: not to have seen the extent of your love for me.

I will never regret loving you, only believing you loved me too.

If your love does not work with that person, it just means that someone else loves you more.

When you have loved unconditionally one man and lost that love, it leaves a wound that never heals, a sad and broken heart, a void forever.

We cannot beg someone to stay if they want to leave and be with someone else. We have to admit that love doesn’t give us the license to own a person. This is what love means…sacrifice.

If the truth was told instead of a lie, then the pain would go away sooner and not hurt as much.
It really hurts when you expected so much more from the person you once loved so much.

If you can’t save the relationship, at least save your pride.

Falling in love is awfully simple, but falling out of love is simply awful.

The saddest thing in life is loving someone who used to love you.

No one realizes the beauty of love, until you lose it.

Why do we wait until it is too late? Why do we let someone else have what we were too scared to reach out and take?

The most painful thing is to be sitting right next to the person you love most, but never being able to let them know.

Deep down you knows it’s best for yourself, but you hate the thought of her being with someone else.

Sometimes I wish I had never met you because then I could go to bed at night not knowing there was someone like you out there.

I wish I was a kid again, because skinned knees are easier to fix than broken hearts.

When I go away please listen, for the wind will bring you my words of goodbye.

People say that love doesn’t cost, but then again, why do so many people pay for it?

Why do things have to pass you by? The things that are so irreplaceable, they seem to run by without giving us the chance to see how much we’ve just lost.

If I can’t have you, at least i was able to know I had you.

The one who makes me the happiest, is always the one who is already taken.

A heart breaking isn’t always as loud as a bomb exploding.. Sometimes it can be as quiet as a feather falling.. And the most painful thing is, no one really hears it, except you..

I wish you could look at me and see the person you once loved instead of the person you have grown to hate.

Sailing across the seas, a fisherman asks me, ‘What is the sand scattered for miles made up of?’ ‘Dear Friend O! The broken hearts of a million lovers on the earth .. all scattered …… all scattered……’.

Someday you’ll know, that I was the one for you.

I close my eyes just to try and see you smile one more time, but it’s been so long all I do is cry. Can’t we find some love to take this away? ‘Cause the pain gets stronger everyday.

Now I believe it when people say love is blind… ’cause I must have been blind to love a person like you.

How can I promise you forever when tomorrow is so far away from me? How can I dry your tears when I have a bleeding heart inside of me? how can I ever forget you when your name is etched so deep within me?

Maybe if I had just looked away that first night you came towards me, everything would be different and my heart wouldn’t be breaking right now.

Love… Why does it hurt? Why does it ache? Maybe because we love too much and too deep that sometimes we forget to keep a little for ourselves…sad but true.

Oftentimes we say goodbye to the person we love without wanting to. Though that doesn’t mean that we’ve stopped loving them or we’ve stopped to care. Sometimes goodbye is a painful way to say I love you.

If the human body can live with food and water, then why does it feel like I can’t live without you?

If someone you love breaks your heart, cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it.

Don’t make my mistake. Don’t let yourself be so angry that you stop loving. Because one day you’ll wake up from that anger, and the person you love will be gone

there is one pain
I often feel w/c
the absence of U

I kneel before you
not as a Prince but  
as a  man in love…..
I would feel like a king
if you would be my queen

I’m scared of everything
Im scared of what i saw
of what I did  of who I am
And most of all, Im scared
of walking out of  this room
And never feel the rest  of my
whole life the way I feel when
I’m with you

Doubt that the stars are fire
Doubt that the sun doth shine
Doubt that truth be a liar
But never doubt that I love.
  

Sometimes I’m real cool, but sometimes I could be a real asshole. I think everyone is like that

Life is a test, and I confess I like this mess I’ve made so far.

Dance as if no one is watching,
Love as if you have never been hurt!

I love you, not for what you are, but what I am when I am with you.

Never frown as you never know who is falling in love with your smile

Never give up dreaming of mr right as Mr right could be dreaming of you.If you give up of him you give up on true love.

I say this to the world: “life is what i make it not what you make of me.”

One day you will ask me what is more important, your life or mine? and i will say my life then you will walk away mad, thinking im selfish, but never knowing that you are my life.

Dance as if no one is watching,
Love as if you have never been hurt!

I love you, not for what you are, but what I am when I am with you.

Never frown as you never know who is falling in love with your smile

Never give up dreaming of mr right as Mr right could be dreaming of you.If you give up of him you give up on true love.

I say this to the world: “life is what i make it not what you make of me.”

One day you will ask me what is more important, your life or mine? and i will say my life then you will walk away mad, thinking im selfish, but never knowing that you are my life.

“Waiting is painful. Forgetting is painful. But not knowing which to do is the worse kind of suffering.” - Paulo Coehlo


People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is, but that’s bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they’re afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But they’re wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the experience of pain. It’s all in how you carry it. That’s what matters. Pain is a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them, you’re letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to feel your pain. - Jim Morrison

There is one pain I often feel, which you will never know. It is caused by the absence of you.


“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn’t it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life…You give them a piece of you. They didn’t ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn’t your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like ‘maybe we should be just friends’ turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It’s a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.”- Neil Gaima

 

 

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kowts3

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2 souls, one voice
 
although two souls are meeting
there is but
one voice
capturing the moment
captivating and controlling
the
thoughts, actions, words
leading the way for conscious
desire and
decisive emotion

stories and daily goings- on
are frequently passed

between the one voice
and the intermixed beings
creating a warm
happiness
a sense of belonging
an aura of completeness
a comfortable
existence

time, a distant memory
fading in and fading out,
its
power and autonomy fall
on blissfully ignorant,
yet distinctly aware,

ears - focused and true

with the quantity
of well spent hours

adding up and summarizing
the feelings and beliefs
shared and
opposed,
comes an ability
to confide and uphold
moments, eternities

abundant with understanding.

 
risk of luv
 
There is a risk involved in everything
Every time you share a smile
Every time you shed a tear
You are opening yourself up to hurt.

Some people tread slowly through life,
Avoiding the closeness risk brings,
Sidestepping the things they can not understand
Turning away from those who care too much-
Those who care stay too long,
Those who hold too tightly.

There is never an easy way to love
You cannot approach it cautiously
It will not wait for you to arm yourself.

It does not care if you turn away
It is everywhere, it is everything.
Love is the greatest of all risks.

It is not reliable, it is not cautious,
It is not sympathetic
It is unprejudiced and unmerciful.
It strikes the strongest of mind,
And brings them to their knees in one blow.

Even in the best of times, love hurts.
It hurts to need, it hurts to belong,
It hurts to be the other part of someone else,
Without either of your consent.

But, from the moment it overtakes you,
It hurts worse to be all alone.
The risk of love never depletes;
It grows stronger and more dangerous with time.
But, it is in the total surrender of all defense,
That we, no matter weak or strong,
No matter willing or captive,
No matter what, we truly experience love.

Despite the many things love is not,
Outweighing it all are the things that love is.
Love is surrender without a loss.
It is a gift without the cost.
It consumes your every thought and desire,
Every breath you take.
It is the fire that fuels you
To do more than pass through life;
It urges you, instead, to live.

No matter the outcome, having felt love,
You will never be the same.
It may scar your heart and soul
And leave you only memories of forever.
Or, it may cause every day of your life
To feel like there is no need for tomorrow.
But, love is worth it. It is worth the risk…

For in all of life,
Love is truly the only risk worth taking.

2day
To-day there have been lovely things
I never saw before;
Sunlight through a jar of marmalade;
A blue gate;
A rainbow
In soapsuds on dishwater;
Candelight on butter;
The crinkled smile of a little girl
Who had new shoes with tassels;
A chickadee on a thorn-apple;
Empurpled mud under a willow,
Where white geese slept;
White ruffled curtains sifting moonlight
On the scrubbed kitchen floor;
The under side of a white-oak leaf;
Ruts in the road at sunset:
An egg yolk in a blue bowl.
My love kissed my eyes last night.
 24
 
24 things to alway’s remember.. and one thing to never forget.. your presence is a present to the world. You’re unique and one of a kind. Your life can be what you want it to be. Take the days just one at a time. Count your blessings, not your troubles. You’ll make it through whatever comes along. Within you are so many answers. Understand, have courage, be strong. Don’t put limits on yourself. So many dreams are waiting to be realized. Decisions are too important to leave to chance. Reach for your peak, your goal, and your prize. Nothing wastes more energy than worrying. The longer one carries a problem, the heavier it gets. Don’t take things too seriously. Live a life of serenity, not a life of regrets. Remember that a little love goes a long way. Remember that a lot . . . goes forever. Remember that friendship is a wise investment. Life’s treasures are people . . . together. Realize that it’s never too late. Do ordinary things in an extraordinary way. Have heath and hope and happiness. Take the time to wish upon a star. And don’t ever forget . . . For even a day . . . How very special you are

Whats the sense of wishing for something when I always just wish it away?We are all travelers in the wilderness of the world, and the best that we can find in our travels is an honest friend. -stevenson-

How to love:

For guys: Love your girl as if she’s only 16
no longer a girl but not yet a woman
love her with all your heart,
set rules and never break her heart

For girls: Love your boy as if he’s only 8
let him play with his toys
and go out with his playmates
don’t worry for all the end of day,
he’ll still come home bak

THE GREATEST REVENGE TO A GIRL WHO STEALS YOUR MAN
IS TO LET HER HAVE HIM….BECAUSE A TRULY GOOD MAN
CAN NEVER BE STOLEN! :P

WHAT WILL U DO WITH SOMETHING WHICH IS LOST? FIND IT…
IF U CANT FIND IT? REPLACE IT…
IF U CANT REPLACE IT? FORGET IT..
HERES THE QUESTION:
WHAT WILL U DO WITH SOMETHING WHICH IS LOST, CANT BE FOUND,
CANT BE REPLACED & CANT BE FORGOTTEN?
………..ACCEPT IT. :(

I LEARNED,
U CANT MAKE SOMEONE LOVE U
U CANT MAKE SOMEONE BE FAITHFUL TO U
U CANT CONTROL UR FATE SOMETIMES
THINGS HAPPEN: GOOD,BAD,INDIFFERENT
U JUST HAVE TO LET SOME THINGS GO
& HOPE THEY TURN OUT FOR THE BEST
IT’S LIKE FALLING OFF A HORSE..
UR IN THE AIR & U KNOW IT’S GOING TO HURT LIKE HELL WHEN
U HIT THE GROUND, BUT THERE ISNT ENOUGH TIME TO STOP IT
SO U CLOSE UR EYES & HOPE FOR THE BEST! :)

The worst thing about being lied to is knowing you’re not worth the truth..

To boys from cupid:

Never leave the girl that destiny picked for you. Truly, distance makes the heart grow fonder but too much will instead make you wander. Always make your presence felt for all she needs is emotional assurance. There is one girl who is meant to catch my arrow for you and nothing can change that, not time nor circumstance.

Girls are like cell phones, they like to be held and talked to, but press the wrong button and you’re disconnected. Guys are like buses. If you miss that one, another will be along soon.

Men listen to music because they want to fall in love.
Women listen to music because they are in love.

A man reserves his true and deepest love not for the species of woman in whose company he finds himself electrified and enkindled, but for that one whose company he may feel tenderly drowsy.

The next cruel thing a guy can do to a girl
is to let her fall inlove with him when
he doesn’t intend to catch her fall.:(
Why do I seem to be caught up inside a dream
All my life, it’s always been my shadow and me
Over my shoulder there’s always a voice somewhere
Saying I never should try to set my heart free

I wish that love would come and take me in her arms
Show me what I’ve never known.
Where I could hold someone words like right and wrong
Just fade away like yesterday

I try and say I love you but the words won’t come through
In my eyes, see all the tears and sad memories
Why can’t I start out new and leave that
old feeling too far behind
I guess that lonely needs company

Around each bend of road
I’m thinking that in time there
will be that rainbow’s end
But when I follow those self illusions
I find that it’s only lonely and me again

Lonely won’t leave me alone

Why do girls require honesty in a relationship? It’s because girls don’t want to live on lies! Keep this in mind: Girls rather choose to be dumped than being cheated!

A woman is always right. Sometimes she may be confused, misinformed, rude, stubborn, unclear, changeable, even downright stupid. But never ever wrong!

If a woman were to love again,
she’d better pick a bachelor.
Because a married man had already
found his only one true love - his wife.
And the only thing he could give to you
is half of what he has.
One half is lust and the other half is lies.
Who knows you have the wrong half?
But either half can do no good to you.
So here we are tonight, you and me together
The storm outside, the fire is bright
And in your eyes I see whats on my mind
Youve got me wild, turned around inside
And then desire, see, is creeping up heavy inside here
And do you feel the same way as I do now
Now lets make this an evening
Lovers for a night, lovers for tonight
Stay here with me, love, tonight
Just for an evening
When we make our passion pictures
You and me twist up as secret creatures
And well stay here
Tommorrow go back to being friends
Go back to being friends, but tonight lets be lovers

It’s not easy to let go of something you’ve put everything into. But it’s harder to realize later on that you’ve been holding on to something that wasn’t there anymore.

Why do we fall in love for someone who isn’t really for us? Should we blame ourselves for falling with the wrong one? Or should we blame the one we fell in love with because he made us feel that he is the right one?

When your feelings get too strong for someone, it is always wise to stop for a while and give your heart a time to breath, a time to use your mind to weigh the situation based on reason, not on emotion.

Hindi madaling maghintay, hindi rin biro magmahal, minsan, akala mo, sya na, minsan, akala mo, ok na. Pero mamamalayan mo na lang, dumaan lang sya para paibigin ka.

I was told not to hurt the heart of whom I love so much. But when I was so busy taking care of that heart, I never noticed my own was slowly dying.:(

It’s more dangerous to weep inwardly rather than outwardly. Outward tears can be wiped away while secret tears scar forever.v

Kng ku2nin ña k0 ngyng gbi
hyaan m Lng ak0 s tbi m.
mmsdn Lng kta hnggng s
pg2log m..
pro pg
my mLmig n hnging dmampi sau
ibg sbhn nun “yngat k ha, aalis nk0″

It’s hard to assume your position on somebody’s life. You might be expecting too much. Something far from reality. So learn to weigh the situation, know your stand and keep things in balance. Because the hardest to deal with is failure, and the hardest to endure is pain.

Gaano kaimposibleng mahalin ka ng taong mahal mo na nagmamahal ng iba? Ganito… para kang nag-aantay ng paparahing dyip sa istasyon ng tren.:(

sabi nila kapag magmamahal dapat limitado. kailangan magtira para sa sarili. para pag nagkahiwalay di masakit. pero para sakin sabi ko sa sarili ko, di bale ng masaktan wag lang akong magkulang

You make me smile for no reason whatsoever,
you make me laugh at the unfunniest things
but most of all you make me love you when
I shouldn’t be loving you at all.

When love is lost, do not bow your head in sadness;

instead keep your head up high

and gaze into heaven

for that is where your broken heart

has been sent to heal.

So, so you think you can tell Heaven from Hell,
blue skies from pain.
Can you tell a green field from a cold steel rail?
A smile from a veil?
Do you think you can tell?
And did they get you to trade your heroes for ghosts?
Hot ashes for trees?
Hot air for a cool breeze? Cold comfort for change?
And did you exchange
a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage? ………..
hey!
We’re just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year,
Running over the same old ground. How we found the same old fears 

:P:P:PThe person who tries to live alone
will not succeed as a human being.
His heart withers if it does not answer another heart.
His mind shrinks away if he hears only the echoes of his own thoughts
and finds no other inspiration.

You promise to take care of me but you hurt me,
you promise to bring me joy but you brought me tears.
You promise me your love but you gave me pain.
Me? I promise you nothing but I gave you my everything.

If none of this works out,
I’ll have another chance,
I’ll find another guy,
I’ll see another day and
I’ll build another world.
I’ll find a new life if you tell me to,
I’ll find another love,
but there won’t be another you.

I wish I’d be a tear in your eye
to roll down your cheek
and end up with your lips,
but I never wish
you’d be a tear in my eye
for I would lose you
every time I cry.

You’ll never understand why I hurt so much
because you’re not the one who is crying,
you’re not the one who is left behind,
you’re not the one who loved too much,
and you’re not the one who is holding on
to someone who is gone…

sbi mo mhal mo ko…
sbi mo rin,di mo ko iiwan…
un din ang sbi mo sa knya…
pro bkit sa knya,di ka
nagsinungaling?

pinilit kong lumayo..
pilit mo nman guluhin buhay ko!
oo,aminin ko noon mnahal kta
pro ngaun pilit kng limutin yun!
sa pgkkataong mnahal kta..
cguro di na ‘to mauulit!
di na mangyyri pa ulet!
gus2 mng bumalik pro sa pnahon noon
ngayon,isa lng mssabi ko…
“tsaka na lng,pagka-mhal na kta ulet!!
(nakss!!:)) :)) )

when you love someone,
be ready to take the intensity of emotions…
be jealous, anxious, love all you like…
take the person in everything that comes with it…
just make sure the person is worth it…

sometimes we bliv dat life has to move on..
we reminisce abwt d past,
but realize dat gud things never last..
but somehow in someway
we silently wish to hold on to d one we once had..

Loving someone means giving him the freedom to find his way, whether it

leads towards you or away from you. Love is a painful risk to take but the

risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful, for only then you’ll

experience the fullness of humanity and that is love. Only love can hurt

your heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only love can make

you cry and only love knows why. If you’re not ready to cry, if you’re not

ready to take the risk, if you’re not ready to feel the pain, then you’re

not ready to fall in love. There was a time in our lives when we became

afraid to fall in love coz every time we do, we get hurt, and then I

figured that’s why it’s called falling in love.

Whatever happens, don’t give up! It is just a trial. After all God

w! ill not give you trials that you can’t tackle. Have faith and cheer up.


WHEN YOU DECIDE TO LOVE, ALLOW IT TO GROW

WHEN YOU PROMISE TO LOVE, REFUSE TO LET IT DIE!

If it is meant to be,
our hearts will find each other
when we meet.
And if our hearts melt together
so will our bodies and souls.
Then every word and every touch
will fuel our passion flame.
I will be yours, you will be mine,
and we will be one.

Missing someone gets easier everyday
because even though you are one day
further from the last time you saw them,
you are one day closer
to the next time you will.

You know it’s love when
forever is not long enough.

My love for you is like time,
if you give it just one moment,
it will last forever.

Forever is not a word…
rather a place where two lovers go
when true love takes them there.

I want to stare into your eyes
and never look away;
I want you to hold me in your arms
and tell me it’s okay;
I want to kiss with a passion
that only we can share,
and when it all falls down
I want you to be there.

When you feel alone,
just look at the spaces
between your fingers,
remember that in those spaces
you can see my fingers locked with yours forever.

God’s gift to me is you
and you are the air that I breathe.

They say time heals and makes us forget
but what we shared will never be erased

An eternity is forever,
and forever with you would be a dream come true.

I wrote your name in the sand, but the waves washed it away.
I wrote your name on a piece of paper, but it got thrown away.
I wrote your name in the sky, but the wind blew it away.
So, I wrote your name in my heart and that’s where it will stay.

Si tu veux savoir combien je’taime,
compte les vagues.” (French) “
You want to know how great my love is, c
ount the waves.

I love you more than any word can say …
I love you more than every action I take …
I’ll be right here loving you till the end.

I don’t miss you and you alone;
I miss you and me together.

If you love someone,
do not put their name in a heart
because hearts can be broken,
instead put their name in a circle,
because circles go on forever.

Bound by the earth and forest.
So to the water and sea.
By the air we breath and the fire within,
connected to the stones of old in perfect circle.
We two are as one. Together forever, in love.

How can I promise you forever
when tomorrow is so far away from me?
How can I dry your tears
when I have a bleeding heart inside of me?
how can I ever forget you
when your name is etched so deep within me?

I may die one day,
but it’s because of you that I will live forever.

:)

 Re: QUOTES, KOWTS AND QWOTES :p :p :p :p :p
Posted Jun 18, 2008 at 11:42 AM

Distance never separates two hearts
that really care,
for our memories span the miles
and in seconds we are there.
But whenever I start feeling sad,
because I miss you,
I remind myself how lucky
I am to have someone so special to miss.

Sometimes I miss you so much,
I just want to rip you out of my dreams
and hug you!

The rose that you gave me has faded,
and wilted away.
But, the love tucked in deep inside
remains in my heart forever.

See there’s this place in me
where your fingerprints still rest,
your kisses still linger,
and your whispers softly echo.
It’s the place where a part of you
will forever be a part of me.

Will I wait a lonely lifetime?
If you want me to, I will.

I will love you all my life
and when I die I will still love you
through eternity and beyond.

A ring is round, it turns forever
and that’s how long we’ll be together!

I love the sun for days,
the moon for nights and you forever.

I’ll surrender my world to you
if that is the only way
I could become a part of yours.

The beating of my heart is a drum,
and it’s lost,
and it’s looking for a rhythm like you.

If you love someone you
have to look before you leap.

It takes a second to say I love you,
but a lifetime to show it.

When I miss you,
I don’t have to go far …
I just have to look inside my heart
because that’s where I’ll find you.

I heard someone whisper your name,
but when I turned around to see who it was, I was alone.
Then I realized that it was my heart telling me that I miss you.

If you love me as I love you,
nothing but death can part us two.

Tears in my eyes,
you on my mind,
love in my heart,
oceans in-between …
I love you.

Close together or far apart,
you’re forever in my heart.

Missing someone is your heart’s way of
reminding you that you love them.

:)

The best way to love is to
love like you have never been hurt.

Love needs no map,
for it can find it’s way blindfolded.

Hold my hand
and I’ll take you there,
somehow, someday, somewhere.

I don’t fear insects or spiders.
At great heights,
I jump off, smiling.
In the face of death I wink.
But, when I look into your eyes,
I’m in fear of how much I love you.

Be true to love,
and love will be true to you.

I don’t need anyone to
take advantage of my
weaknesses or my strengths,
I need someone
who will appreciate me
for everything that I am.

Missing you can turn from pain to pleasure
if I knew you were missing me too.

A life without love is no life at all.

Passion’ a word
which involves so many feelings;
I feel it when we touch,
I feel it when we kiss,
I feel it when I look at you.
For you are my passion,
my one true love.

Far in distance,
but near at heart,
you’ll always be the angel of my heart.

Love is hard to find,
but once you find it you won’t regret it.

I may not be your first,
but to be your last would be perfect!

If I don’t know what true love is,
how will I ever find it?

When I found you,
I felt as if my heart found its destination.

I prayed to God to reveal the person who liked me;
He revealed you.

Love happens whether you want it to or not.
Don’t try to control it.

You know it’s love when
it you ‘grew into’ it
instead of ‘fell in’ it!

If you think missing me is hard,
you should try missing you.

uno:>>”I may be able to speak the languages of human beings and even of angels, but if I have no love, my speech is no more than a noisy gong or a clanging bell. I may have the gift of inspired preaching; I may have all knowledge and understand all secrets; I may have the faith needed to move mountains-but if I have no love, I am nothing. I may give away everything I have, and even give up my body to be burned-but if I have no love, this does me no good.”

dos:.>>>”Always be joyful.”

tres:>>>”…Love comes from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith.”

kwatro:>>>”Happiness is falling asleep next to you and waking up thinking I’m still in my dreams.”

singko:>>”You’ll be surprised to know how far you can go from the point where you thought it was the end.”

sais:>>”Hugs are a means of transfering energy to another person who is dear to you. This will replenish depleted energy at any time particularly when a dear person is sick.”

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kowts2

I forced myself to let go of one person that I need in my life… It’s the only thing that makes sense, but at the same time, it’s the same thing that complicates me… I know that I’m better off without that person, yet I feel empty whenever I try to let go… in the end, I chose, constant hurt than emptiness..

x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x

I just want to feel loved..
that I’m special…
that I am not worth losing..
I wanted to find and fight for someone who will never let me go…. ‘AGAIN’….

x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x

Never assume that LOVE is enough to make someone stay or come back to you… because when pain strikes the heart,… Love fades away no matter how great it was…

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Some things are meant to be kept forever.. you know you have to stop and let go when things aren’t going right and everything you did is unappreciated… Remember….. It is wiser to be alone but happy… than with somebody who do nothing while you do everything..

x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x

You know what’s the worst question someone ever asked me?

“Akala ko ba mahal ka nia?”

then I looked down and said,

“akala ko rin eh…”

x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x

“PANAHON”….. mahaba un dba?

pero bakit ung “ORAS” mabilis…?

di ko magets eh!

bakit ORAS lang ang binigay nia para mahalin ako… at PANAHON naman para malimot ko xa?

x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x

Sana ang pag-ibig ay tulad ng pamasahe sa jeep na kapag buo ang binigay mo,………..
sinusuklian ka kahit paano..

x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x

Ang tao kapag namatay, napupunta sa lupa…………

eh ang pag-ibig kapag namatay saan napupunta?

—- sa iba…

x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x

If someone would ask me who I want to be with?

I would simply say,

“someone who will NEVER leave me just because of SOMEBODY else!”

A kiss can be a comma, a question mark, or an exclamation point. That’s a basic spelling that every woman should know.
Jeanne Bourgeois

Nice to be here? At my age it’s nice to be anywhere.
George Burns

The shell must break before the bird can fly.
Tennyson

Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye.
H. Jackson Brown Jr

Outside of a dog, a book is man’s best friend. Inside of a dog, it’s too dark to read.
Groucho Marx

Never underestimate the value of doing Nothing, of just going along, listening to all the things you can’t hear, and not bothering.
Winnie The Pooh

The world is but a canvas to the imagination.
Henry David Thoreau

The statistics on sanity are that one out of every four Americans are suffering from some form of mental illness. Think of your three best friends. If they’re okay, then it’s you.
Rita Mae Brown

I have had a perfectly wonderful evening, but this wasn’t it.
Groucho Marx

If you don’t risk anything, you risk even more.
Erica Jong

I can last two months on a good compliment.
Mark Twain

You tried your best and you failed miserably. The lesson is ‘never try’.
Homer Simpson

When your heart speaks, take good notes.
Judith Cambell

Don’t worry about the world coming to an end today. It is already tomorrow in Australia.
Charles Schultz

Boy George is all England needs - another queen who can’t dress.
Joan Rivers

If I had no sense of humor, I would long ago have committed suicide.
Mahatma Gandhi

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.
Dr. Seuss

Everyone should have kids. They are the greatest joy in the world. But they are also terrorists. You’ll realize this as soon as they are born, and they start using sleep deprivation to break you.
Ray Romano

Sex is nature, and I believe in going along with nature.
Marilyn Monroe

All my life I’ve wanted to be someone; I guess I should have been more specific.
Jane Wagner/Lily Tomlin

There is only one success: to be able to spend your life in your own way, and not to give others absurd maddening claims upon it.
Christopher Darlington Morley

Do just once what others say you can’t do, and you will never pay attention to their limitations again.
James R. Cook

Making the simple complicated is commonplace; making the complicated simple, awesomely simple, that’s creativity.
Charles Mingus

When all think alike, no one is thinking very much.
Walter Lippmann

Too bad all the people who know how to run this country are busy running taxicabs or cutting hair.
George Burns

“I only keep books that I like very much. Otherwise I’d throw them out.”

“I don’t like to commit myself about heaven and hell - you see, I have friends in both places”

“I really don’t think life is about the I-could-have-beens. Life is only about the I-tried-to-do. I don’t mind the failure but I can’t imagine that I’d forgive myself if I didn’t try.”

“I believe that it is better to try even if I fail rather than fail because I didn’t have the courage to try.”

“Don’t judge me because I’m not a book.
I am more than I know myself to be.”

“Love is a noble act of self-giving, offering trust, faith, and loyalty. The more you love, the more you lose a part of yourself, yet you don’t become less of who you are; you end up being complete with your loved ones.

movie love quotes 3
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“I love you without knowing how, why, or even from where.”
Patch Adams

“Will you love me for the rest of my life?”…… “No, I’ll love you for the rest of mine.”
Phenomenon

“Do you ever put your arms out and just spin and spin and spin? Well, that’s what love is like. Everything inside of you tells you to stop before you fall, but you just keep going.”
Practical Magic

“Look, I guarantee there’ll be tough times. I guarantee that at some time, one or both of us is gonna want to get out of this thing. But I also guarantee that if I don’t ask you to be mine, I’ll regret it for the rest of my life, because I know, in my heart, you’re the only one for me.”
Runaway Bride

“That’s why they call them crushes. If they were easy, they’d call them something else.”
Sixteen Candles

“I hate the way you talk to me, and the way you cut your hair. I hate the way you drive my car. I hate it when you stare. I hate your big dumb combat boots, and the way you read my mind. I hate you so much it makes me sick; it even makes me rhyme. I hate it, I hate the way you’re always right. I hate it when you lie. I hate it when you make me laugh, even worse when you make me cry. I hate it that you’re not around, and the fact that you didn’t call. But mostly I hate the way I don’t hate you. Not even close, not even a little bit, not even at all.”
Ten Things I Hate About You

“Don’t let anyone ever make you feel like you don’t deserve what you want. Go for it”
Ten Things I Hate About You

“If the people we love are stolen from us, the way to have them live on is to never stop loving them. Buildings burn. People die. But real love lives forever.”
The Crow

“Don’t say we aren’t right for each other, the way I see it is… We aren’t right for anyone else.”
The Cutting Edge

“Love doesn’t end just because we don’t see each other anymore.”
The End Of The Affair

“You see I never stopped loving you, even though I couldn’t see you.”
The End Of The Affair

“I will find you. No matter how long it will take, no matter how far.”
The Last Of The Mohicans

“What will I give to live where you are? What would I pay to stay here beside you? What will I do to see you smiling at me?”
The Little Mermaid

“The only wrong thing would be to deny what your heart truly feels.”
The Mask Of Zorro

“I have to ask you a question. It’s a good one so think about it. If two people love each other, but they just can’t seem to get it together, when do you get to that point of enough is enough?”…… “Never.”
The Mexican (Jerry answering Samantha’s question)

“Hear this now: I will always come for you.”…… “But how can you be sure?”…… “This is true love — you think this happens every day?”
The Princess Bride

“Death cannot stop true love. All it can do is delay it for a while.”
The Princess Bride

“I know I never done the right thing, I never said the right thing, and I act like a fool. I always say that we’ll be just buddy-buddy friends, but I will not be true to my heart. So I ask you this one question. And if your answer is no, I will leave you alone once and for all.”
The Wedding Planner

“All our young lives we search for someone to love, someone to make us complete. We choose partners and change partners. We dance to a song of heartbreak and hope, all the while wondering if somewhere, somehow, someone perfect is searching for us.”
The Wonder Years

“This is crazy.” …… “I know. It doesn’t make any sense. That’s why I trust it.”
Titanic

“You can’t express every feeling that you have every moment that you have them.”
When Harry Met Sally

“Hearts will never be practical until they are made unbreakable…”
Wizard of Oz

“Without a heart I can never really know what it would be like to love someone, or ever really understand trashy novels.”
Wizard of Oz 

Love is a minefield, you take a step and get blown to pieces, put yourself back together again and stupidly take another step. I guess that’s human nature, it hurts so much to be alone that we’d all rather blow-up than be single.”
Love And Sex

“How come we don’t always know when love begins, but we always know when it ends?”
L.A. Story

“I’d rather have you as a friend than not have you in my life at all.”
American Pie

“Love is such a strong word. And if you are going to use it, make sure you know what it means. Cause it hurts to hear and know that you don’t mean it.”
Alone and Restless

“Is it possible to be in love with someone and not even like them?”
American Sweethearts

“You will see a lot of things, but they will mean nothing to you, if you lose sight of the thing you love.”
At First Sight

“If there’s any kind of magic in this world, it must be in the attempt of understanding someone, sharing something. I know, it’s almost impossible to succeed, but . . . who cares, really? The answer must be in the attempt.”
Before Sunrise

“When you fall in love it is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then it subsides. And when it subsides, you have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part.”
Captain Corelli’s Mandolin

“I would rather have had one breath of her hair, one kiss from her mouth, one touch of her hand, than eternity without it. One.”
City Of Angels

“I believe there’s a place where the restless souls wander, burdened by the weight of their own sadness. They wait for a chance to set the wrong things right. Only then can they be reunited with the ones they love. Sometimes, a crow shows them the way; because sometimes, love is stronger than death.”
City Of Angels

“I kneel before you not as a prince, but as a man in love.”
Ever After: A Cinderella Story

“A life without love, is no life at all.”
Ever After: A Cinderella Story

“You will be doing anything for the one you love… Except love them again.”
Faithful

“You have been trying to tell me that death is not the end… don’t back out on me, now that I finally believe… I love you.”
Final Fantasy

“You mean … you mean you don’t like me?”…… “No, of course I like you. It’s because I like you I don’t want to be with you. It’s a complicated emotion.”
Finding Nemo (Marlin answering Dory’s question)

“There was once a man that loved you too much to change you.”
First Knight

“I always thought that there was this one perfect person for everybody in the world, you know, and when you found that person the rest of the world kind of magically faded away, and, you know, the two of you would just be inside this kind of protective bubble, but there is no bubble, I mean if there is you have to make it, I just think life is more than a series of moments, you know, we can make choices, and we can choose to protect the people we love, and that’s what makes us who we are and those are the real memories.”
Forces of Nature

“When you love someone, and you love them with your heart, it never disappears when you’re apart. And when you love someone and you’ve done all you can do, you set them free, and if that love was true…. when you love someone it will all come back to you…”
Forget Paris

“I may not be a smart man, but I know what love is.”
Forrest Gump

“A heart can be broken; but it keeps beating just the same.”
Fried Green Tomatoes

I get even more nervous singing when everyone’s fallen silent, but I really try to communicate the meaning of the lyrics, and there’s people there listening to that, and if they’re moved by it, then I’m moved as well.

If you love something, set it free; if it comes back it’s yours, if it doesn’t, it never was.

If we deny love that is given to us, if we refuse to give love because we fear pain or loss, then our lives will be empty, our loss greater.

Love isn’t a decision. It’s a feeling. If we could decide who we loved, it would be much simpler, but much less magical.

We are not the same persons this year as last; nor are those we love. It is a happy chance if we, changing, continue to love a changed person.

Love is a gross exaggeration of the difference between one person and everybody else.

It is best to love wisely, no doubt; but to love foolishly is better than not to be able to love at all.

Emo Quotes
*The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and deeds left undone.

*I cry for the time that you were almost mine, I cry for the memories I’ve left behind, I cry for the pain, the lost, the old the new, I cry for the times I thought I had you

*Not all scars show, not all wounds heal Sometimes you can’t always see The pain someone feels

*Whats the sense of wishing for something when I always just wish it away?

*Every night i talk to the stars pretending its you.. it acts just like you tho.. far away and never replies to my questions

*Why do people tell you to believe in what you want to but then tell you not to believe in the one true thing you do believe in?

*Times a precious thing to waste, but friends are more precious

*Kiss me im emo!

*The sad truth is that most evil is done by people who never make up their minds to be good or evil.

*The saddest aspect of life right now is that science gathers knowledge faster than society gathers wisdom.

*Do not assume that he who seeks to comfort you now, lives untroubled among the simple and quiet words that sometimes do you good. His life may also have much sadness and difficulty, that remains far beyond yours. Were it otherwise, he would never have been able to find these words.

 

Posted by winksparkle at 5:33 pm | permalink | Add comment

hidden MysTeRY

Hidden Mystery In the deepest depths of you and me
In the deepest depths of we
Lies the most beautiful jewel
Shining forth eternally

Within that precious jewel
Within that priceless piece of we
Lies a time that is beyond all time
Lies a place that is beyond all space

Within that sacred source of radiance
Lies a love beyond all love
Waiting WaitingEver so patiently

Waiting for you, waiting for me
Waiting patiently for all to see
The beauty that is you inside of me
The beauty that is me inside of thee

In the deepest depths of you and me
In the deepest depths of weLies the love and wisdom Of all Eternity

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confused,

I miss you.
I know we’ve said our good-byes,
and I know we’ve gone our
separate ways,
but I still miss you
I wish that people were like chalkboards,
and we could wash our memories clean.
But we’re not.
And we can’t.
Yet despite the anger that I feel sometimes,
I still miss you.
We were happy once,
and I remember those times.
I remember how we smiled and laughed,
and how you held my heart
in your hand.
I remember the tears and the fights
and how I took my heart back,
bruised and slightly wilted.
But still, somehow,
I miss you,
and I just wanted you to know that

>>>>How do i sAy gOodbye to SomeOne i nEvEr haD? Why dO TearS Fall 4 Someone whO wAs nEveR mIne? wHy iS it Dat i MisS SOmEone I wAs neVer wIth & wHy dO i LoVe SOmEone Whose lOve wAs nevEr MINE…?!?< <<<

>>>>I don’t want to admire you anymore
i did my best to forget you
just to ignore d’ pain inside
but i didn’t make it,I failed

WHY?!

why did we meet
only to make me feel this way?
why did we became friends
only to bring close to u as i am today?

why did we i learn to like u
only to show me how it is to be left in the rain?
why did i learn to love u
only to realized that it would bring so much pain?

how i wish that i never fell inlove w/u
for i know i’d be living in blue
u may not notice coz i choose to live in u
but the truth is deep inside i slowy die.

i’ve tried to neglect this feeling
& admit to myself that i can do nothing
that u’ll never learn to love me
coz a friend is what u want me to be.

i wonder why god above allow this to happen
why this thing have to occur again?
it has been always a one sided love affair
which make me feel thar nobody seems to care.

I guess our friendship won’t last forever
coz for u, we aren’t meant for each other
but u’ll always remain in my heart
even if we’re already far apart.

Now, i still dont think i’m ready to set u free
though i have to accept
the fact that u don’t love me
i’m awareb eventually, i have to say GOODBYE……

and yet i keep on asking myself…
WHHHHHHHHHHHHHHYYYYYYYYYYY?!?

i Until now,you’re still here
bothering and confusing my mind
and making my heart beat
faster than before

I hate myself for dreaming of you
that someday you’ll love me too
and hoping that we’ll be together

When the ryt tym come
I am hoping 4 ur attention dat hurts me a lot
cause i know ders someone in ur heart
how i wish i didn’t met u before

cause i didn’t know how to handle myself
how to control this feeling that grows
but still i will just pretend
that i didn’t like u anymore

But here in my heart you have a space
cause i never forget you and i never will.,.. : c r y : 

i learned 

 I have learned that no matter how happy you are, things still might not last. Both partners have to give and take equally or the relationship will not work.

 I learned what love truly is and what love truly isn’t. I’ve gained experience on how to have a better relationship now.

 I learned that love cannot truly conquer all, both people have to be commited and willing to compromise in order to make things work. If one person is pulling the relationship it will fail sooner or later.

 becareful who you give your heart to
not stay somewhere where your not happy
 not let them talk me into something i don’t want to do
 just because someone doesn’t verbally tell you how they feel doesn’t mean they don’t love/care about you.
 keeping feelings and thoughts inside is not a good thing
 never let someone make you into something you are not

There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved.
You can’t “fix” people only support them. What you see is what you get.
 “It’s not what you always say that counts…but what you don’t say.”
 how to truly love someone
* how to be a friend and lover at the same time
* to truly be happy, you have to first be happy with yourself
* communication is the key
* get to know someone first before jumping straight in
* you can’t change a person or be changed unless its wanted
* don’t look for love…let it find you
* when you give your all and it still don’t work…you can walk away knowing that you tried
* just because one person did something (cheat,lie, etc) doesn’t mean all are going to
* when you truely love someone you want them to be happy even if that means walking away
* time heals all wounds…and scars can be covered
* when you really love someone…the material things don’t matter…money house car,etc..as long as you have each other and love

Always and Forever..
posted by (Sep 01, 2004 @ 11:54PM) views: 415

It’s been a while since we broke up
but until now my heart is screaming your name out
I don’t know how to move on
Coz the love you’ve shared with me is so hard to let go

Every night I pray to the Lord above
that if i’m lucky enough he’ll answer my prayer
and that prayer is to bring back the times we’ve shared together

As days goes by I kept on thinking of you
and how i wish that you’re thinking of me too
I wanna let you know that I still love you
and will do my best to share the love i have for you one more time..

I missed the times when you express how you feel to me
for those are the times that you prove that your love for me is real…

And now that you’re gone
I told myself that i’ll close the door for a while
til someone will found the key and open that door one more time..

And before I go, i want to say that I hope that you’ll find the right one who’ll fulfill that empty space in your heart..

Have I told you that after all these years we’ve known each other you became my angel?
an angel who will always be in my heart forever…

MY LAST GOODBYE

A love that is once so strong
now is just a shadow of the past..
ur hug as warm as the fire
is now as cold as ice..

the dream wer we are supposed 2 live..
now has come 2 an end..
lets not live wid a lie..
wake up! coz its time 2 say gudbye..

d shadows of d past..
are still chasing u and me..
but lets face d reality..
you and me is now fantasy..

our feelings had changed..
our love had faded..
d moments dat u and me spent 2geder..
will just be a memory 4ever..
let dis drim end..
let us set each odr free..
let dis be my last goodbye..

..You Understand….

You understand my words,
When I can’t say what I mean.
You understand my frustration,
When I can’t make reality of a dream.

You understand me as a woman,
As I strive for my goals.
You understand what tears are for,
When life takes its’ toll.

You understand what it means,
When a promise has been broken.
You understand how vows,
Without sincerity can be easily spoken.

You understand the value,
Of keeping family close to your heart.
You understand that best friends,
Never grow apart.

You understand all that I am,
And everything I am not.
You know that friendships grow stronger,
When one is in a tight spot.

You understand everything about me,
And the special dreams that I hold.
You understand my thoughts,
Without a word being told.

You understand my spirit.
And smile as it unfolds.
You understand this love,
My gift for you to hold.

You understand the importance of true,
Friendship between a woman and a man.
You understand that being with me,
Is a challenge for most any man
 

 

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strong enough, my fwen,sunrise,sunset, it hurts

i thought i was strong enough;
i thought i could control my emotions;
i thought holding back is the best thing to do;
i thought you feel the way i feel for you..

coz that’s what you showed me;
that is how you made me feel,
we took it nice and slow..
it was amazing,
it felt like something real..

but now this dream has come to an end;
this feeling i have to get over with..
i thought i was strong enough;
but i’m hurting down deep..

 

A friend is someone who cares about you. The one that you can count on in times of troubles, pains, and sufferings that occur in your life. The one that you can trust with all the secrets of your life. A friend is someone who always finds time to listen to all the stories you tell and the one that is always concerned in everything that you do. These traits I found in you, that’s why I really trusted you, and for all of these, I know nothing to repay you but to simply be your friend. And we share the laughter for years admitting to each other that we enjoy being with one another.
But lately little changes are slowly taking place, I just woke up one morning that my feelings for you have changed. To describe it I don’t know of a way, its just that I have this weird feeling that I always want to see your cute face, to hear your sweet voice, and feel your gentle touch. And when it’s already my chance to see you, my knees began trembling, my heart pounding faster than ever, my mind began to mix up. “What shall I do? Will I put face powder on my face? What? What now?” Asking myself as if I was crazy. Then you suddenly appear right in front of me smiling. “Oh my! What shall I say?” I said to myself. And nevertheless I was speechless. No words to say, no stories to tell, nothing. But I managed to keep my feelings hidden.
I wanted that moment to last forever but unfortunately, the day is about to end, and nothing can we do about it, so we just bid goodbye to each other, and hope to see one another sooner.
That night, I was wondering under the dim moonlight. Dreaming about you and I, walking hands in hands, talking sweetly about sweet nothing… “Oh My!” I said to myself. “What’s this happening to me as if I was bewitched by somebody? Is this love? What can I do about it?” That night I slept with a smile in my lips.
On the next day, I see you wearing a blue cold face. I asked, “What’s Wrong?” while cheering you with all my might, but inside I too was dying. You told me it’s because of a girl you like most but despite the things you have done for her, she just can’t learn how to love you. My tears started to stream down my cheeks. You thought I understand you and that’s what causes me to cry. “No, you don’t understand,” I wanted this to tell you, “I was crying because like you, I really felt something special for someone and that’s you, but whatever I do, you just can’t feel that I love you too! And now you’re telling me you’re in love with somebody! What about me? What about my feelings for you?” These words I don’t have the guts to tell, so I just chose to be quiet and it’s all a secret for me to keep.
I spent that night crying endlessly. I can feel that boundless woe blanketing my lonely soul. “What shall I do now?” Will I let you know about my feelings for you?” These question rolled out of my mind. But after that, I remembered that I valued our friendship too much that I can’t stand to loose it just because of this stupid feeling they called LOVE.
That was my first decision, but I realized that I couldn’t be your friend without thinking about my feelings for you. “What will happen to me now? Now that I can’t hide my feelings anymore? … … Now I know what to do…” I sadly whispered to myself. I know it will take a long time for me to do this but I know it’s a must. Many hours passed and I spent it all by crying, for I promised to myself that, that will be the last time that I will cry just because of you. However I was wrong in this.
The next day I met you, I know I have practiced every word that I shall tell you. But I just stop myself from crying the moment I saw you drawing near. But I wipe it all dry for I have a very important message for you. But before I have the chance to tell you these words, you greeted me with a cheerful smile and a warm “Hi!” Ignoring this I told you, “Farewell,”. You asked me “Why?” Once again my tears began to fall because of the deep pain that I’m hiding inside but I know I must continue. ”Farewell my friend. For I am not worthy to be your friend. For a long time, I have betrayed our friendship.” I said. “Betrayed?” I can’t remember any time that you betrayed our friendship!” You said. But in your face I can see that you’re so confused. I must finish I know for ‘this is the only way to forget your love,” this is my heart instructing me for it too was hurt. I took a deep breath and said, “No, you don’t understand. I have betrayed it. I have promised that we will be friends forever but suddenly I felt that you already had a special place in my heart. I’m sorry. And now I’m leaving with all our happy and sad memories. But before I go, I want you to know that I LOVE YOU … MY DEAR FRIEND.” After this, I run with all my might even though I heard you shout, “Wait!” I can’t stand any single moment that I can hear your sweet and gentle voice because underneath that is the fact that you could never be mine… …

luv can wait 

wen i was a kid, i used to believe that
soulmates never exist..but as time passes
by, my perceptions suddenly change.. guys
are juz pain in d ass..but i admit, some
gurls cant live widout dem.. how does a
gurl handle different kind of guys?
player? ballers? haters? most of the guys
dont give sum gurls d ryt treatment dey
nid to have.. some guys juz take
advantage..treating deyr gurl as a
display..a trophy.. someone hu will make
dem standout and will make dem say..’pare!
chic ko! ayos ba?’ wid dat pogi pose tag
with a sexy wink.. do girls notice? or juz
ignoring all the things that have been
alredy seen by deyr naked eye? some are
foolish..some are not.. but please dont
tolerate.. wen will u learn? how will you
move on? how will u let things go? things
are not oweiz wut it seem to be.. you also
hav to spare sumthin for urself.. dont juz
give.. coz remember dat u also hav sumthin
to take.. if u think dat a guy deserves
it.. oh well..think agen.. you hav to luv
urself before anyone else.. if u think
that you’d be losin ur oder haf.. well..
ur absolutely wrong..for guys: please dont
enter a gurls life if u juz mean to break
their hearts.. always remember dat “dont
hurt gurlz coz God counts every tear dat
is fallin from deyr eyes” for gurlz: there
is sum1 rili meant for you..in the ryt
tym.. ryt place.. in god’s tym.. you’ll
juz forget u ever cried..den ul juz
realize dat its worth the long wait..you
dont hav to be in a hurry..der are a lot
of guys dat ull meet.. guys dat myt hurt
you..guys dat will possibly make u
cry..but bear in mind dat youll be meetin
d wrong ones before gettin into the right
one..you have to live ur lyf d way it shud
be..dont make men d center of ur lyf.. der
are a lot of things to be focused on.. as
u walk thru lyf.. u will realize dat it
wud be fun livin widout d excess
baggage..but the feelin of bein in love is
one of the most beautiful experience ur
lyf will ever encounter.. being
foolish..blinded..stupid..is not an
exemption.. you hav to control ur heart
and giv mind some space..its not bad to
shed tears.. youre only showin urself dat
u know and u have felt how to be inlove..
its all about riskin.. but if u think dat
uve given ur best..but still nuthin
happens.. you’re smart enuf to figure wut
to do..its easier to let go dan to hold
on.. love never gets tired.. sometimes we
only hav to take sum rest..
someday..somehow..someone.. will let u
forget all d bad things dat happend in d
past…and dat sum1, might be d one dat
will giv u d eternal happiness ur heart’s
been longin for… 

sunrise sunset

i met u this morning
u said hi and i said hello
then love at first sight grow
together with sunshine’s glow

it was hot at twelve
as hot as our heart had felt
no one can break us together
even the strongest man ever

but days have ups and downs
after reaching its peak then goes down
realizing that your love was untrue
sunset in me went through


nter> this whats inside my head that time….errr, too long ago though…it was written during my nursing 106 lecture (bored s klase hehehe)… y am i writing it now? y am i still thinking about it?… do we always have to come to the sunset of our lives? is it that all the relationship does have its own phase of the day? y does relationship always have to go up and down…

no matter how much u both tried to make things better… there will always be something that breaks the spell of eternity…guess its being human…needless to say, all of us were born as an individual that we tend to still think more of ourselves before others…y do we love this person? y do we fight for our love? partly, yes, its because u wanna have a happy life with that person ur falling inlove with…but didnt u realize that by doing that, u r thinking about ur own personal happiness…not actually the happiness of ur other half perse (although it will come next) masaya k ky u cannot let go…masaya k kaya u cling to him/her…

on the other hand… y do people tend to hurt the ones they love…or the other way around, the people who loves them? if somebody falls inlove with you (eloquently speaking) please do try to avoid burst of all the emotions coz this will not help at all… everything will just end up in chaos…u r lucky if ull find a peronality that tends to talk things over before she/he freaks out as well… simple things, we are sometimes making it big for a discussion or an urgument… ego sometimes go way beyond its limit…we become egocentric that even though we know we are already wrong, we tend yo insist that we r right… hay buhay….

how i always pray that relationships do stay always in the flamming hours or the day… i always pray that there will be no rain nor storm (thought sometimes necessary to make love grow more thought storm isnt really relevant at all), i pray that there will be no sunset when it comes to love…i do pray that everything will be just perfect…that theres no such thing as being HUMAN…(imperfections)will that happen…a big fat dream as i call it…(bullocks! oppss…pardon me!)

in every relationship, (cliche) love,respect, honesty, prayers ….and so on and so forth..blah blah….are the keys to make it successful…easy to say than done…it takes guts, powers and perceverance to make it a reality…kailangan super hero k hehehe…

ive got loads of things on my mind right now… naguguluhan s word n PAG-IBIG… hurt but still madly inlove…wrecked but still complete…sobbed but elated… selfish but altruistic,hached off but pleased..at marami pang iba…..hay naku, y is it that when we fall inlove we often does goes both extremes…nakakasira b ng bait?…

all i know is that…its lovely to be loved and beloved…no matter what consequences it will take…

IT HURTS!!!!
hey i think weve passed the point
wer we r put outa joint
by wAts goin on in r respective worlds..
seems just one thing
one thing remains
wAt we feel will always remain
u excite me beyond
my horizon..
r u surprised when
i let go?
man i live 2 breathe and flow.
the way u r
the things that u do
they stir the very depths of me
id love 2 release myself and love u

hurts to say I’m sorry
It hurts to say I never cared
It hurts to say I’ll always love you
It hurts to say I enjoyed the life we sadly shared

It hurts to know I’m not the one
It hurts to know I can be better
It hurts to know you’ll find someone else
It hurts to know we won’t always be together

It hurts when I see you angry
It hurts when I see you walk away
It hurts when I see you so depressed
It hurts when I see you cry each day

It hurts to know it’s over
It hurts to know I destroyed this love
It hurts to know I did something so stupid
It hurts to know I injured my angel from above

It hurts so bad to be so alone
It hurts so bad to live in a world without you
It hurts so bad to live with this weight upon my shoulder
It hurts so bad to try to figure out what I’ll do without you

It hurts to remember our days together
It hurts to remember when it was just us two
It hurts to remember our time spent with one another alone
It hurts to remember all the times I wanted to say “I love you too”

It hurts for me to beg and plead
It hurts for me to cry
It hurts for me to get back up
It hurts for me to even try

It hurts when I see you crying
It hurts when I see your face
It hurts when I realize there’s no second chance
It hurts when I look at you and realize someone will take my place

It hurts to see you fall apart
It hurts to walk away
It hurts to hear your painful tears
And it hurts to know you’ll be out of my life someday

 

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dying….

Staring at a certain object that reminds me of your memory, a memory of your love that once was mine. We grew up in the same place, we played the same taste of music, we dance at the same rhythm and you even teach me the first times in my life. Yes, the first time, my first love specifically speaking. I did not intend to fall for you yet it did happen, how silly I am for letting myself feel this way for you. I can not blame myself for feeling this way, the way your eyes glisten, every time you smile is enough for me to fall for you over and over again, enough for me to break all the promises that I’ve told to myself. 3 stages of being a student, is also a stage for me to be close to you and let you know what I feel. Primary, looking at you from afar is enough for me, smelling your scent brings me 2 feet higher than the ground, and talking about the stupid little games is all enough for me to have you as my classmate. Secondary, second step to be near you, but it seems that it is all worthless because every time I gave you something you seem to reject it and leave it on a side of your room. I took this chance to make you feel that you are special to me, but I do not have the courage to voice out all the screams that my heart wants to tell you. Coward! That’s the word I always tell to myself, a contradiction what my friends knew about me. How can this word comes into their mind if they knew that I’m a drag racer, an exhibitionist in motor racing but they did not know that I’m a coward risk taker in love. I will never take the risk of saying those words for you. Words, which will be kept on my heart and will just tell it through the way my eyes look at you and through the way I let you feel how special you are to me. In this stage I learned to be jealous, and be a hypocrite every time you ask me if it is ok to be with that someone that you loved, I always tell it is ok and it will be better if you spend time with that very lucky person. a person that hopefully, will not hurt you. How can I say those words if I knew how much fear I have in losing when you are starting to fall for that person,and how can I start living a new life when all this time living means having you at my side?. questions in living when love has chosen to walk away from me,I know I can’t start for its hard to ignite one’s fire when temperature is not enough, when it’s weak and hopeless. When all of the fears,tears and troubles that you have kissed away starts to come back and chase me. I fear for now its all about existing not all about living, I cried for it breaks the dream that built up my future. Unfair for me, and I hate this feeling that I cannot live into this world without you as a part of my life. For since I’m a kid, you ‘ve always been a part of my plan, a part that I’ve thought would last forever at my side but I’m wrong. .i’m sorry!! Not your fault!! No ones fault!!! I’m dying!!! Forgive me!!!

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giv luv a chance

One has to always put the end in mind. But that is not the only significant part of the journey. Keep in mind that when we start any journey, it is always the destination we look at. But once we reach the destination, it’s the journey that we will always remember. We should not be too blinded with the destination that we forget to enjoy the trip going there.

Just like in a relationship, you just don’t think that you should enter into a relationship because you will already marry the person. You enter into a relationship to get to know the person better and discern if he/she indeed could be that person walking down the aisle with. You have to spend some time with him/her and find out if the two of you are compatible and could hit it off. You won’t know this by not giving the him/her a chance.Once you are in that relationship, that’s the best chance to build on what the two of you already have.

Don’t break up with someone just because you don’t see yourself with the other person for the rest of your life. Don’t jeopardize a possibly wonderful relationship. How would you know that the other person is the right one if you don’t give him/her a chance to prove him/her worth? How would you know that he/she could be the one if you prematurely cut off the relationship because at the moment you don’t see yourself sharing the future with him/her? How would you know this if you don’t give him/her the chance?

And I tell you that it will take you a long time (or possibly never) to find another guy/girl like him/her. Remember that its not everyday that you meet someone who has the magic to let you fall in love!!!

It might be possible that you would still remain as friends. But being together” opens a lot of possibilities and opportunities that friends do not get. Even if you remain as friends, you would not be as close as before. The intensity and the same feeling is no longer there. The relationship will no
longer be on the same level. In the movie “Can’t Hardly Wait”, there was a line in that movie that goes something like this: “Fate takes you just as far.

Destiny is when everything falls right into place and its just up to you to make it happen.” Destiny is a mixture of chance and of choice. Its not a thing to be waited.

You must make it happen. Don’t you feel that everything has already fallen right into place and its up to you to make it happen? Everything is just so right and how would the both of you know if this indeed is fate or “the plan if you would not give it a try. The only way for you to know is to atleast give the relationship a chance and find out for yourselves. Don’t miss this chance of finding it out because of some unfounded fears.

At least if you give it a try, you can say that you did your best and you found out for yourselves. Not just based on some fear and apprehension that are just part of the countless possibilities that might happen. If it doesn’t work, at least, after many years you would know if the both of you really were meant for each other rather than regret and bear the thought of all the things that might have been? At least you would clear all the “what ifs” and the “only ifs” in the future. It will
give the both of you peace of mind.

Would you find it too much of a coincidence that the both of you hit it off so wonderfully. It seemed that you’ve known each other for so long already though you have not known each other for that long. It seemed that you knew each other from another life. And each of you enjoyed every bit of it. You were like soulmates who finally found each other after a very long separation. You had everything going so well. Everything happened as if everything just fell right in place. Would you consider it fate? It’s up to you to make it happen.

You might say “This is something serious and that I might be making a big mistake and that I would just like to play it cool. No room for ambiguity here. Better to be safe than sorry!” Better to be safe than sorry?! To be honest, in this world we live in, there is not a full proof plan that exist. If you always bear this idea in mind, I don’t know if you would eventually find someone. You might just be too scared of the bad things that you would end up missing all the good stuff! The best that you can do is give the relationship a chance. You can never succeed without even trying. You should always hope for the best. And to hope is to risk pain…or
satisfaction. To try is to risk failure but risk must
be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. To risk nothing is to risk even more.

You might be taking the risk of losing the one true thing that really matters to you.

Guarantee that you will be second to none. You would not completely know if he/she may already be the one if you don’t give it a try. And it will be more painful to lose someone you love and who loves you more just because you are waiting for the right time. How will you ever know if this is already the
right thing at the right time? What if the time is now? When will you really know when the right time is?

You cannot love a person too soon for you would never know how soon it will be too late.

The greatest injustice love can ever offer is you not loving at the very right time only to find out later that it was the right person. You’ve got so much going on right now. You have a lot of things in common. Imagine what you can share for tomorrow. You still have a lot of things ahead of you. Learn about each other together. You come to love not by finding a
perfect person but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly. And besides, nobody is perfect.

When you truly love someone you don’t look for faults. You don’t look for answers. You don’t look for mistakes. Instead you fight for the mistakes, you accept the faults and you overlook excuses. If you truly love someone, you just don’t bail out on the other person because there is something
wrong with him/her. You’ll know that it’s true love you are having if you are still willing to love that person despite of his or her flaws or infirmities The reason you met each other may be of destiny. But if destiny will suggest that you’ll live without her, then why live not by destiny but of free will?

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magical story


i found an old subtle of scrapbook,
scnned 8 chaste pages, curiously,
a pic2r of a boy strikes my eyes
intrigue to define his fascinating smile.

a feeling of intuition wrap around me.
familiar glimpse of a new man
myt have married to the girl next to him
d 2 are destined to be 2geder, may not in dreams.

presently as wat iv recalled
they meet through cellular fons, seems to be
as dat moment they started as frends
sending some sweet messages, makin their hrts fully free!

little by little they got to know each other
conversation of laugters i see wen they meet
then they continue sending messages on air
until they feel the so called luv..

though distance and time break em apart
love led them to feel theyre both sum1
absolutely the boy is as happy as me
coz the boy with a magical s2ry is me!

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cries, ,meant,ilove u

It’s been so long
since I’ve felt your loving touch
I need you right now
and it’s just way too much

So many memories
so many happy thoughts
you left me alone
so that’s all that I’ve got

I spent so many nights
trying to find what went wrong
i finally figured out
that it’s been me all alone

I should have been there
should’ve stayed by your side
now I’ve stepped into the light
where i can no longer hide

and i still offer my love
wether you accept it or not
like a fly in a web
you still have me caught

when i see you now
it brings tears to my eyes
it’s so hard to believe
you’re no longer mine

So i live on
without your love
it’s a life of regret
and I’ve had enough

meant

I TREATED YOU AS A FRIEND;
LEAVING YOU TO A CORNER,
CRYING ALONE; FACING THE WORLD WITH FEAR,
STILL I INSIST TO BE APART FROM YOU.

YOU WERE COMING TO ME;
PLEADING TO GIVE YOU TIME;
BUT TIME THAT IS SPEND WITH YOU
IS NON SENSE AND WORTHLESS FOR ME

YOU SEARCHED FOR ME, BUT I SEARCH FOR MY LOVE;
YOU ASK FOR MY ATTENTION, BUT I’M BUSY ASKING MY LOVE FOR ATTENTION;
YOU GAVE ME EVERYTHING, BUT MY WHOLE LIFE IS NOT MEANT FOR YOU;
YOU ARE NOT FOR ME THAT’S ALL I KNEW!.

NOT UNTIL YOU WALK AWAY FROM ME,
TELLING ME YOU JUST REALIZED,THAT YOU SHOULD FORGET ME;
I THOUGHT IT WOULD BE JUST FINE;
BUT IT WAS JUST MY CONCLUSION, FOR THIS HEART WILL NEVER BE FINE..

I MISS YOU!, I REALLY DO!
NOW I WANT TO HOLD YOU, YOU’RE BUSY HOLDING YOUR LOVE
NOW I WANT TO SAY I LOVE YOU, BUT YOU CAN’T SAY TOO!
WORST!, I WANT TO STAY WITH YOU, BUT YOU SAID THERE’S NO SPACE FOR ME, FOR SOMEONE IS MEANT TO STAY.

I LOVE YOU

I love you as the ebbing tide loves the shore
As the verdant trees love the sun
As the dewdrops love the rain

I will love you
Till the sun grows cold
And the starts grows old
Till the waves no longer reach
The fringes of the earth and kiss them
Till the sun no longer rises in the east
Nor sets in the west
Till the winds no longer woo the leaves
And the doves no longer coo

I will love you
Till the foams in the open sea keep bubbling
Till the bamboos keep on swaying
To the music of the lenient winds that blows
Till the pathos I bear causes my heart to bleed
Till the running blood in my heart freezes
Caused by you indifference
Till this young heart of mine is numb
With pain and longing
Till it no longer knows woe

I will love you
Until the times comes
When the tender memory of you departs from me
Unto the last breath of my life

When the advent of death is hither
To wrap my whole being with his mighty arms
Then la me down in my cold sullen grave
Where there will be nothing
Not even a wooden cross to remind you of me

I will love you
Till the lowly ashes mingle with the dust
And my shadows vanishes with the mist of time
Till my soul reaches the inaccessible beyond
But till then my heart throbs
The undying love I have for you
Love that is
Infinite…
Noble…
Sublime…

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pain,,

I will not tell you her name..
But she comes most nights to put an end to my nightmare.. the one i have all the time, of myself drowning.
She looks beautiful in my dreams.. radiant and shining.. that even in the twilight of my horrid mind, her light banishes the shadows to the most distant places.
Speaking of shadows.. I’ve had many shadows in my life.. when i was young i used to play with my shadow, and whenever i had friends, i never really considered them real.. but merely replacements for my shadow.
I will not tell you her name..
But sometimes she guarded me from the shadows..
and sometimes she was one of them.
I will be well again.. but i will never be complete for the absence of you.
haaaaay… this is depressing…
It is so irritating when the butterfly you chased all day and caught by twilight suddenly loses all the vibrancy and radiance it had when it was free.. Between my hands, the tired creature wilted.
I have been chasing butterflies for years, and this one fit my palms just right.. yet i have to let it go.. it is not mine.

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so hard , When the right time to say GOODbye is HERE..,MeN R sImpLy "UnPrEdIcTaBlE"

How hard is it to say these special words,
To someone you care about a lot?
You’d go up to any heights for her,
Even if there’s a big risk of getting caught.

How hard is it to say that you just fell in love,
The moment you looked into her eyes.
You know you’d be there for her,
To wipe that tear off whenever she cries.

She Brightens my day
I love it when I see her smile,
She lights up my darkest hours
She’s always worth my while

How hard is it to say how much I adore you?
I was just hoping, wishing something would come true.
She’s really one of a kind,
I’m hopin’ some day you could be mine

When the right time to say GOODbye is HERE..

Hey! Are you satisfied with that Love?
When you feel down and he’s not around…
When you feel ugly and he is not there to appreciate..
When you feel the world is heavy and he doesn’t offer his shoulders…
When you want his hugs and you only get to hug your pillows..
When you need to share your laughs with him and he prefers to laugh with his friens..
When you tell him..honey, i love you..and he answers..the words are corny…
When you want him to call you love and he calls you by your name..
When you want to be alone with him and he prefers to watch tv..
Girl..enough is enough!!
I think, the right time to say goodbye is here..knocking at your heart..
Would you dare open it?
  MeN R sImpLy “UnPrEdIcTaBlE”

There are so many things i really cant understand about men. they keep on saying that women are so unpredictable when its them who really are. for a moment, they look so serious, a few more min. you can see them hanging around with their frend telling funny stories. then later see them in corridor, pretend taht you accidentally bumped unto them and they wont even react!!!

why do they still have to try to hide themselves using humors as their front or an excuse when in fact, they jst cant say wat they truly feels…? true that its good to have a good sense of humors to have a sense of balance. i totlly agree with that!!! but cant they understand that too much of it makes people perfectly imbalance more so to them…why isit that some men continually infuse jokes thinking that they’re really funny wen in fact they’re not? worse!, they dont even know that theyhave said or done something wrong which are’nt funny at all. and even more badly they dont know how to admit their mistakes. the words “i’m sorry” were strangers to them. confront them and they’ll give you an answer of “oh! its just my way of making of making people close and warm.” which is the stupidest answer i have ever heard…DAAHHH!!! how can u make people feel close nad warm and comfortable when you’re alraedy building a gap and you don’t even notice it? how can men become so dense wen it comes to matters like this? ask them again and they’ll say “:its nothing. i didnt do anything wrong. theres no big deal.” “oh come on!!!” everything is a big deal. you were born in this world pissing off people and that’s a big deal!!! how can you guys be so insensitive?!!

do you really find fulfillment with what you’re doing? are you happy with it? do you like mush when people say you’re concieted? does it add uo to your pogi points? if that is so, “ang babaw nyo nman!!!”

but you know wat? i still bliv that you are not really like that!!! you’re just afraid of showing who u really are… most especially to women.

boys be TRUE!!! : s m i l e :  

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love..

Fall in love for the right reasons. What is the right reason anyway? When you are in love you don’t care anymore what is right and what is wrong. The heart has reasons that even reason cannot know. It is that certain feeling that people get and gives them a sense of thrill, of excitement, of butterflies in their stomach. You’d realize that you are in love when suddenly everything seems to have sense, even those things that you once thought to be stupid. Then people would tell you that you ARE crazy… you tell them “what the heck, I am in love.”
You don’t know but seeing that person makes you feel complete. Hearing his voice echoes sweet melodies to your ears and the just seeing him smile and laugh makes the world a better place for you. It is love girl, and everyone has the share of that. But most of the time, things just don’t end up the way you would want them to. You wonder why good things never really last.
I wouldn’t know. So far love has been the most complicated thing in this world, next to living, God gave us a heart for loving. Sometimes people ask, why don’t we just have hearts that can endure any kind of pain.” Hearts are never practical until they are made unbreakable.” But i guess that would destroy the whole excitement of being in love.
That feeling of excitement, yes, that exhilarating experience. It is what makes us dare to love and love and love again, to make us stand again every time we get hurt. To make us hope again, to give us another shot in love.
When we get hurt, we tell people that we could never love again. But we lie to ourselves, in fact, the more we deny loving again, the more we tend to wish for that perfect, unending and unconditional love.
It is so hard to give this unconditional love, something that does not ask for anything in return. Because as humans, our imperfections makes us hope for something in return. Do not worry if you find yourself asking for love in return, that is something so natural. But you just don’t have to ask for too much. It is what makes loving someone so selfless.
This thing called love; I could never really try to define it. Yet it is something that had been the most common topic in this site.
I would just like to say to all those people who reads this, to all those who have felt falling in love, cheers guys, you have just been through one of the greatest gift of life and that is experiencing how to love. It is one of the highlights in life.
And those who have gotten hurt already, don’t give up, remember that what can’t kill you only makes you stronger, who knows, the right person is just around the corner.
Those who took another chance in loving again, I admire you guys for the courage, i just wish you all the best this time around, remember love is sweeter the second time around.
For those who want to be in love, never hurry to fall in love. Love comes in unexpected ways and in the least time we expect it. It is what makes it so natural yet so unique.
And yes to those who are in love, cheers guys. You have never really learned until you have loved truly. Enjoy

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lovers compassion

Again here comes another extra ordinary day
Staring at you don’t know what to say
Can’t look directly into your shining eyes
Can’t you feel? I’m in heaven by your side!

It’s hard to explain
This feeling that i gain
For without you by my side
I’d be a fool again

But then i heard there’s someone else in your heart
This feeling that I feel just hurts me so much
So before i let you go there’s one thing i want you to know
My love for you won’t stop to grow

Hope you’ll remember this very simple thing
For whatever would happened i will be right here waiting
I had always loved you, baby it’s true
So I’ll let you go for your dreams to come true

But here in my heart a simple wish is locked
That someday to you I’ll come close
And that you’ll take good care of me
Just like a rose…

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